My grandpa grew up in Mukwonago, which is where his family ran Heaven City restaurant. Later, they moved to Milwaukee and ran Turner Halls restaurant. At this phase of his life, he was probably 7 or 8 years old, and the life of the party. Being raised in an atmosphere of hospitality and entertainment, he learned how to imitate the behaviors of the highly inebriated and would re-enact what he saw on stage to make people laugh. This is also where he eventually met my grandma, and they have been together ever since. (I will share that love story another time…)
So much of my son reminds me of my grandfather… Their concern the comfort levels of others; Their goofiness (when I hear stories about my grandpa, I can swear the teller is talking about my son). My grandpa was an engineer, which is definitely a path I could see Colton heading down as he is constantly taking things apart and building oddball creations. They both save(d) everything; My grandma and I are still finding random things my grandfather saved, and Colton will scold me for throwing something out because there might be a use for it somewhere at sometime.
Even though I have lost my grandfather, he lives on in my son in so many ways. He also lives on in me and many of my other family members, almost as if we each got a special part of him that we get to carry with us. Do your kids or family members have surprising traits that remind you of someone you lost?
Raising my old junking soul,
Tara
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